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The Wheel of Consent, naming the dynamics of Take-Allow and Serve-Accept, and showing how receiving and giving interact with doing and done to
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Like A Pro in Manchester MI Feb 26-March 2, 2025

We are bringing Like A Pro to the Midwest! Apply to join us for Like A Pro in Manchester, Michigan Feb 26-March 2, 2025!

I’ve been teaching Like A Pro online and assisting for and co-teaching Like A Pro in person for the past two years. It’s a deeply enjoyable and enriching experience. I keep learning so much! Like A Pro is the Wheel of Consent for Professionals. Geared for those who work with clients and individuals. I’ve been working towards bringing this training closer to home, geographically speaking. Want to know more? (for example, what is the Wheel of Consent?) Want to help me create a Wheel of Consent community of practitioners? Come train with us!

Like a Pro brings the transformative model of the Wheel of Consent to professionals working with topics of consent, boundaries, relational intimacy, body sovereignty, trauma recovery, sexuality, communication, and touch. Originally developed for touch practitioners, the course has, by popular demand, expanded to include non-touch professionals like therapists, coaches, teachers, and workshop leaders.

Like a Pro guides you into a personal somatic experience of The Wheel, and then teaches you how to integrate it into your practice, to make all your sessions safe, effective, and satisfying.

Like a Pro is for you if…

You have a professional practice and…

  • you want to bring the Wheel into the one-on-one work you are offering
  • you’ve read the book and you want to practice what you’ve been learning
  • you’ve taken a Wheel of Consent workshop or been introduced to the Wheel in another training and want to go deeper
  • you want to clarify the dynamics of working with clients
  • You are a body worker, physical therapist, psychotherapist, healer, sex worker, teacher, workshop leader, life coach, intimacy or relationship coach, surrogate partner, cuddle therapist, tantric practitioner, massage therapist – if you work with people, you need this course!

 

December 16, 2024/by Sasha Lasdon
https://integratederos.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/Wheel-diagram-black-outer.png 2077 2128 Sasha Lasdon https://integratederos.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/05/integrated-eros-sexuality-coaching-logo-xlarge-1030x236.jpg Sasha Lasdon2024-12-16 17:29:412024-12-16 17:29:41Like A Pro in Manchester MI Feb 26-March 2, 2025
Consent, practices, workshops

Becoming Faculty at the School of Consent

I’m thrilled to announce that I’ve joined the faculty with the School of Consent! What does this mean? It means that I will be helping to teach the 5 day course, Like A Pro, both online and in-person. This course teaches you the practice of the Wheel of Consent and how to apply it with or teach it to your clients, patients, or individuals you work with. Like a Pro gives you the opportunity to experience and embody the Wheel as well as ways to share it with your clients.

You might have seen that I teach Wheel of Consent workshops, both in 6-week series and in 3-day intensives. These are geared towards anyone who would like to experience the practice of the wheel for themselves and with others. I became a Certified Facilitator with the School of Consent in 2021 to be able to offer these. Like A Pro is that material, plus how to apply it to your professional life. A deeper dive and well worth it!

I’ve assisted with other teachers these past couple of years, building my experience with the curriculum and flow. I will continue to assist (next up: Like A Pro in Salt Lake City March 2024! Apply here!) and will now begin to co-teach Like A Pro with my colleagues.

 

A diagram of the Wheel of Consent. It shows four quadrants that include the dynamics of Take and Allow, Serve and Accept. The practices of the Wheel of Consent show us how to differentiate doing for me, doing for you, being done to for me and being done to for you.

A diagram of the Wheel of Consent. It shows four quadrants that include the dynamics of Take and Allow, Serve and Accept. The practices of the Wheel of Consent show us how to differentiate doing for me, doing for you, being done to for me and being done to for you.

 

To find out more about about my trainings, experience and skills, click here. I will still offer sessions to individuals, couples and moresomes. Please be in touch to find out more! I’d love to hear from you.

January 15, 2024/by Sasha Lasdon
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Wheel of Consent class in person, Chicago! August 18-20

We have POSTPONED this event until the spring of 2024 due to family medical emergencies for both facilitators. STAY TUNED!

We invite you to join us for a Wheel of Consent practice laboratory in a six week online course! Register Here

Why is it so hard to ask for what we want? What gets in our way? How can we learn to know what we want, trust in our own desires, and communicate that to others? 

I keep exploring these questions as I delve deeper into working with the https://www.schoolofconsent.org/ as a Wheel of Consent Certified Facilitator. The model of the Wheel and the exercises that help us learn about it help us with questions about ‘who is it for’? Who is the gift of our actions for? Is it for me or is it for them? These practices help us discern and tease apart who is doing an action and who is it for. It anchors it in practices that help us notice our wants, trust ourselves that what we want is real, value that we are allowed to want what we want, and to communicate it with clarity.

Where do we practice these skills? I’ll be co-teaching a weekend workshop with my friend and colleague, Max Pearl August 18-20, 2023. Join us!

In this workshop, we will take time to explore how to notice what we want. We will practice naming our desires, honing our senses for feeling ‘yes’ and ‘no’ in our bodies. We’ll practice listening and being listened to. We will wake up our senses together to build trust in ourselves first, and in each other as we communicate. Asking for what we want can feel daunting, and it gets easier with practice. Max and I set a spacious, compassionate container to explore and practice in a low-stakes environment.

Register Here

or see more about the event on my events page.

Because of who we are as teachers, we offer a space that raises up marginalized voices instead of mostly the default white, western, cis/het voice. We are offering a coalition space (hat-tip to Bernice Johnson Reagon) for practicing and learning the Wheel of Consent. It is a learning space for us to practice together, even when it is uncomfortable, with a vision towards and supporting our shared growth. For this workshop, we will reserve 50% of the participant list for BIPOC registrants in order to fully inhabit that coalition space. (Why are we doing this?)

 

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May 23, 2023/by Sasha Lasdon
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Events

Like A Pro

Like A Pro in Chicago, IL April 15-19, 2026

Join us for Like A Pro in Chicago, IL! To apply, go here!

Like A Pro is a Wheel of Consent workshops for professionals, offered through the School of Consent. More info on Like A Pro on the School of Consent’s website is here.

Like a Pro brings the transformative model of the Wheel of Consent to professionals working with topics of consent, boundaries, relational intimacy, body sovereignty, trauma recovery, sexuality, communication, and touch. Originally developed for touch practitioners, the course has, by popular demand, expanded to include non-touch professionals like therapists, coaches, teachers, and workshop leaders.

Like a Pro guides you into a personal somatic experience of The Wheel, and then teaches you how to integrate it into your practice, to make all your sessions safe, effective, and satisfying.

How is taking Like a Pro different from the Wheel of Consent workshop series I’ve offered and been teaching? The main differences are in the time and depth, as well as in who it’s for (see what I did there?). Like a Pro is a 5-day workshop. The Wheel of Consent workshops I teach are about 2.5 days worth of material (even in series form).

Like a Pro is for you if…

You have a professional practice and…

  • you want to bring the Wheel into the one-on-one work you are offering
  • you’ve read the book and you want to practice what you’ve been learning
  • you’ve taken a Wheel of Consent workshop or been introduced to the Wheel in another training and want to go deeper
  • you want to clarify the dynamics of working with clients
  • You are a body worker, physical therapist, psychotherapist, healer, sex worker, teacher, workshop leader, life coach, intimacy or relationship coach, surrogate partner, cuddle therapist, tantric practitioner, massage therapist – if you work with people, you need this course!

I’ll be co-teaching this class with my colleague Marcia Baczynski. Please apply to join us!

I will also be co-teaching Like A Pro in Montreal in September and an online Like A Pro in November. Stay tuned!

 

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April 15, 2026/by Sasha Lasdon
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Wheel of Consent workshop

Moving into Agreement: Wheel of Consent and Contact Improvisation workshop, Toronto May 2026

Moving into Agreement: A Wheel of Consent and Contact Improvisation workshop with Kathleen Rea and Sasha Lasdon. May 7-10, 2026 Toronto

Register here!

DESCRIPTION

Join Sasha Lasdon and Kathleen Rea for a 4-day exploration of the Wheel of Consent and Contact Improvisation. We’ll explore where the Wheel of Consent and CI (and associated movement practices) meet, how they can inform each other, and where they don’t overlap.

The first 2.5 days of the workshop will be a full introduction to the Wheel of Consent. The Wheel of Consent, created by Dr. Betty Martin, is a set of practices and ideas on how to detangle and explore receiving and giving. It helps us by asking the questions: “Who is doing an action?” and “Who is it for?” No prior experience with the Wheel of Consent is necessary.

We’ll have an opportunity to experience embodied practices that invite us to:

  • connect with and understand our desires and limits more deeply
  • explore and examine how we make choices
  • feel our Yes and No in our bodies
  • explore ways to create clearer agreements about what we may or may not participate in
  • experience a set of practices and tools

The last 1.5 days of the workshop will explore how the Wheel of Consent can inform Contact Improvisation. Contact Improvisation is a social dance involving touch, in which momentum between two or more people is used to create and inspire dance movements. Dancers move within a constantly changing physical reality. There are no set leaders or followers. While there is technique involved, the quality of the relationship and communication within a dance is the main focus. CI welcomes dancers of all levels and abilities.

Sasha Lasdon, a certified facilitator and faculty member with the School of Consent, will guide us through the embodied practices of the Wheel of Consent.

Sasha and Kathleen have both been practicing Contact Improvisation for over 25 years. They each bring a depth of experience in sensing agreements through movement with others. Both have experience exploring consent in CI and writing jam guidelines. The Wheel of Consent offers tools for exploring limits (what I’m not willing to participate in) and desires (what I want to participate in or make happen), bringing clarity to movement practices that include paradox and complexity. These practices and concepts can help us clarify moments and dynamics in our dancing by actively noticing and asking, “Who is it for?”

The CI component of this workshop is an opportunity to hone and deepen an existing practice of CI, dance, or movement. We may play with negotiated dances, witnessing, and moments of discussion.

THIS WORKSHOP IS FOR YOU IF:

  • you have experience navigating dance spaces, jams, workshops, or classes (any level of movement experience is welcome!)
  • you are able to learn in group spaces
  • you want to hone your consent skills
  • you’ve heard of the Wheel of Consent and want to learn more

THIS WORKSHOP MAY NOT BE FOR YOU IF:

  • you are in the acute stage of processing a consent violation in your life
  • you are not able to regulate your nervous system or identify what you need when upset
  • you experience active psychosis
  • you are not interested in dancing at all

For those who request it and complete the four-day workshop, a certificate of participation can be provided.

Optional pre-reading:
The Art of Receiving and Giving by Dr. Betty Martin

COST

  • Ocean – $900 (can afford extras like a vacation abroad)
  • Lake – $650 (need to consider my budget to attend)
  • Pond – $385 (need to carefully consider and plan my budget to attend — only 10 available)
  • Puddle – $300 (only way I can attend — only 3 available)

Event Information

Thursday, May 7, 2026 at 10:00 AM to Sunday, May 10, 2026 at 6:00 PM EDT

Bain Co-op Studio, 100, Toronto, ON, M4K 1E8, Canada.

REGISTER:

https://spring26torontowheelofconsent.eventzilla.net/e/2138676263

LOCATION:

100 Bain Ave, Toronto, ON, M4K 1E8

DATES:

May 7 to May 10, 2026

SCHEDULE

Day One (full Wheel of Consent day)
10:00 am to 5:00 pm – Workshop
Lunch and dinner provided
We will have 75 minutes for lunch and 1 hour for dinner
6:00 pm to 7:30 pm – Evening guided dance jam

Day Two (full Wheel of Consent day)
10:00 am to 6:00 pm – Workshop
We will have 75 minutes for lunch, and lunch will be provided.

Day Three (½ Wheel of Consent and ½ Contact Improvisation)
10:00 am to 6:00 pm – Workshop
We will have 75 minutes for lunch, and lunch will be provided.

Day Four (full Contact Improvisation day)
10:00 am to 5:00 pm – Workshop
75 minutes for lunch (lunch provided)
Snack time before jam
4:30 pm to 5:30 pm – Dance Jam
5:30 pm to 6:00 pm – Closing circle

BIOGRAPHIES


Sasha Lasdon (they/them)
 has worked with movement, sexuality, gender, bodywork, and consent education for over 25 years. They are a certified facilitator of the Wheel of Consent and faculty with the School of Consent. With a home base in the GLACIER community (Great Lakes Area Contact Improvisation Enthusiast Retreat), they have taught and danced internationally in Contact Improvisation, aerial/circus, and integrated/disability dance. In collaboration with their communities, Sasha co-wrote jam guidelines for both the Madison CI Jam and GLACIER. They are in private practice as a Somatic Sex Educator. Other influences include years of hospice care work, elections work, and experience in cooperative business and living structures. Sasha is a white Jewish queer non-binary trans person who finds joy in teaching from and about the body and how we connect our insides to the outsides. They currently live and work on Ho-Chunk land called DeJope (Madison, WI, US).


Kathleen Rea danced with Canada’s Ballet Jörgen, the National Ballet of Canada, and Tiroler Landestheater (Austria). She fell in love with Contact Improvisation 22 years ago and has been involved in the community ever since. She has choreographed over 40 dance works and has been nominated for five DORA Awards. Kathleen has a learning disability, meaning writing takes her six times longer than average; despite this, she loves writing and is a published author (The Healing Dance). She holds a Master’s in Expressive Arts with a minor in Psychology and is a certified teacher of the Axis Syllabus and Buteyko Breathing. Kathleen is the director of REAson d’etre dance, a Toronto not-for-profit CI-based company producing a weekly jam, a film festival, and dance theatre productions. She is autistic and works to educate about neurodiversity. She developed the widely read REAson d’etre Dance Jam Guidelines, which over the past 20 years have influenced consent culture in the global CI community. She is also the founder of the Contact Improv Consent Culture Blog.
Kathleen Rea’s Demo Reel


Archana Rama

Archana is a former Buddhist nun, retreat organizer, Reiki Master, Huna practitioner, certified gemstone healer, and aromatherapist. She is trained in chakra balancing, meditation, yoga, and works as a medical and spiritual intuitive.
https://archanarama.ca/home

CANCELLATION POLICY

We offer a 90% discount for all cancelations done tow week prior to workshop.

all cancelations including those due to illness done less than two week prior to workshop will receive a 75% refund.

ACCESS

The studio is wheelchair accessible.
Please contact us with access questions or requests.

HEALTH

  • All attendees will do a Flu and Covid rapid on the first day they arrive at the studio. We will supply the tests. Arrive early to do test before the start time.
  • Medical grade covering over any open wounds.
  • Masks are welcome and optional.
  • If you are feeling unwell, please do not come to the event. If you become sick during the event, we ask that you stay home. We offer a 75% refund for anyone needing to cancel last minute due to illness.

WORKSHOP AGREEMENTS

Please read prior to registering

 

QUESTION AND MORE INFORMATION:

Email Arhcena Rama  at etgems@gmail.com

 

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May 7, 2026/by Sasha Lasdon
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