"With practical wisdom, encyclopedic knowledge, a gentle shame-busting kindness, Sasha helped this terrified middle-aged divorced sexual newbie navigate the confusing scary rapids of polyamory, swinging, group sex, one night stands, break-ups, meet-ups, bdsm, FFM's, MFM's, E.D. and all the other confusing acronyms. Now I am having the best sex and the best intimate loving long-term relationship of my life. Thanks, Sasha! You really know your stuff!" -B.C.
"Sasha is a powerful facilitator and compassionate witness of personal change. Our work together guided and encouraged me to embrace new understandings of embodiment. Thank you!" -Day

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I've been an educator, bodyworker, movement and somatics practitioner and sexuality coach, in various combination, for over 15 years. During this time, I've noticed how much we each struggle with our bodies, sexuality, shame, fear and flat out not knowing. I've also noticed the creativity, vitality and delight that arise when we experience transformations towards our sexual growth and healing. My goal is to create and hold space for your discovery and exploration as you move towards greater joy, freedom and happiness in your sexuality, pleasure in your body and satisfaction in your relationships. Whatever you are facing, you don't have to do it alone.


"Sasha holds an exquisite safe space for supporting deeply powerful embodied work. I was feeling a readiness for continued opening and release in my root. Sasha invited me into the safety of trusting sound and movement in my own body and co-creating a session with them. Delightful! I am very grateful for the session, thank you Sasha!" -LB
"Sasha is a skilled bodyworker, with a strong, intuitive touch. They have a clear, grounded presence that makes it very easy to talk about intimate issues. They are an exceptional and intuitive listener, without a hint of judgement. I felt safe and valued throughout, and that was a critical element in the work we did. They helped me reflect on my sexuality and sexual energy, and with their calm guidance I was able to identify longstanding obstacles to experiencing my whole sexual self. And then, over the course of several bodywork sessions, we moved up to and through those obstacles. The results were so gratifying. I feel genuine joy for finding a deeper connection with my sexual energy and pleasure, and a great sense of freedom from shame and worry about my body and my desires. I would recommend Sasha's work to anyone who wants to experience more joy, more freedom, more of the pleasure that really is our birthright. They will meet you right where you are, without judgement, and guide you gently but powerfully to a place of greater joy." -Dave



I offer trainings, panel discussions, coaching and experiential learning activities for medical practitioners, folks in healthcare fields and other caretaking professionals.

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Sessions are available for adult individuals, couples and groups.

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Events and workshops can be tailored to the needs of your group or professional organization.

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Sasha Lasdon

Somatic Sex Educator and Intimacy Coach
Certified Sexological Bodyworker

313 Price Place
Suite 110
Madison, WI 53705